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Advices to men who want to find a Ukrainian single woman

This advice based on a list of common mistakes men from Europe, USA and Canada do when they meet Ukrainian ladies.

1.     Only consider her outward appearance.

Every woman wants to make better pictures to make men like her and collect more interested glances. This makes men desire a cute face and attractive body. However, a good picture of her profile does not mean at all she will be the same glamorous model from a glossy magazine all the time. Make-up also takes time. Thus, due to this misconception, 20% of single women receive 80% of request for meeting in Kiev from potential partners. However, you have to understand they only look prettier than others do.

Everything may change when you meet a lady in person. She can look absolutely ordinary, just like thousands of others.

No, we are not saying that beauty is worthless in the match process. All you have to do – is to consider a factor of appearance as one of many, including such important ones as her mind, experience, education, heart-openness, wisdom, desire to be your supporter walking through life, and what is called ‘the buzz’ – that feeling you have met ‘your’ person. So many, yes, but they must be all considered thoroughly if you want to succeed in your searches, not keep on looking for years or decades.

2.     Only look for a model to the envy of all your friends.

This is the logical continuation of the problem No. 1, but wider. Sometimes men only want to find a good picture, a model, to be their partner for outdoor events. On them, all their friends and colleagues would look at their Ukrainian lady saying she’s a true beauty from one of Ukrainian free dating sites. Of course, your self-esteem will rise above the mountains because of that.

But what’s next, when you return home after dating is over? Will you put her in sheaths? Or in the closet? No, you can’t – she is a person just like you, so you will have to fill up 95% of your time between parties with something more than just a love to feeling of your supremacy.

Besides, women like these models almost never want to find an ordinary man to tie their lives with – they also want self-esteem’s realization, a rich fellow who’d make them shine as a diamond 24/7/365 and be the brightest star on the firmament of vanity fair. Isn’t this a portrait of a lady you want to live in relationship with? If not, try to avoid a mistake number two.

3.     Not stopping when you find a good lady.

You have finally found a woman you like the most from singles. But why aren’t you stop your further searches?The thing is that if you already have found a suitable soulmate, why are you still keep on looking for anyone better, wiser, more suitable for you…? This mistake No. 3 doesn’t make you hold still with a fine and you keep on looking for a finer. If you cherish your future happiness, just stop from further findings.

4.     Not adding your normal photo during the registration on a dating site.

Do you want to find a pretty lady not giving them anything in return? Do you think that only you choose and women don’t? So it’s like they have to judge you on the way you talk, your job, and how big your house is? Well, these are definitely parts of what’s called ‘family happiness’, but before they will have a chance to get into your head, they have to see you in the first place.

When you two start to seek for a soulmate, you, first of all, consider how they look. A couple of real and nice pictures of you will make your acquaintance start. Only then, if you think you are good with this person, you start chatting deeper and more thorough. But remember – everything starts with a visual image.

Be yourself : a modest and life-loving fellow who is in search for warm and kind women. You choose and you are chosen too, remember that.

5.     Being too obtrusive.

Often men wish to understand that a lady of their interest is the same interested in them. That’s why they send a letter, and then – a wink, and SMS, and another SMS, and 101 another SMS in two hours. Women from Ukraine are more restrained and thoughtful about communication. If you will demonstrate that meddlesomeness, they’d rather prefer not to answer you at all and to choose another guy.

Instead of it, you’d better decrease a daily limit of your SMS to two per day: wishing her a good day in the morning and a good night in the evening. Maybe, make a Skype call a couple times a week.

6.      A desire to meet as many Ukrainian women as possible during one go.

Well, you can use the Internet and dating sites to become acquainted with as many women as you want. But don’t try to gather them in a pile – if you’ve found one you seem to be interested in, agree on the day of your arrival to Ukraine to have a date with her. Otherwise, if you won’t be open and answering, keeping silence is not a good thing to continue your relations. So a lady might be started to be interested in someone else instead.